Hello Beautiful Soul, This week I’m sharing some chakra insight into my favorite topic – relationships.
Energy either attracts or repels. In this post, I’m going to share keys to creating more attraction (chemistry) with your mate.
In the “olden days,” human’s lives were far more stable than they are now (because root chakra reigned then). People often had the same job, home and mate for their entire life.
Because of that, there were a lot of puzzle piece relationships and they worked. By “puzzle piece relationship” I mean the kind where the parts of you that may not be very developed are your partner’s strengths – and vice versa.
This kind of “you complete me” relationship creates a lot of polarity. The downside is it is a relationship heavily based on need, because each partner has qualities the other hasn’t developed, so each person doesn’t feel whole or complete without the other.
The upside is that it creates incredible chemistry because the two partners fit so well together — like two interlocking puzzle pieces.
Humans basically operate energetically like magnets. If we come at each other with the same kind of energy – say active/positive — it’s like trying to put the positive side of two magnets together. You know what happens… they repel!
But turn one of those magnets over and suddenly, they’re irresistibly drawn to each other. You can’t keep them apart!
In this era, we’re all becoming more complete within ourselves and embracing both our masculine and feminine sides. And that is good overall. But it has wreaked havoc on the chemistry that natural occurs between a man and a woman.
In the last 60 years we women have made gigantic strides in getting more equality. We now not only have the right to have a career and make our own money, but we’re expected to!
And men, who have been raised by these more liberated women (in the last 30-40 years) have been trained to honor the feminine more and to be more sensitive and aware.
I’m going to make a generalization here so please forgive me, because I really need to say it.
I would even say that women have been taught to mistrust their femininity and men have been raised to be suspicious of their strong, masculine, testosterone-driven qualities.
Because of this, woman often lead with their masculine energy, while often stifle theirs in favor of a softer, more feminine approach.
Since that is still polarized, you’d think it would create more chemistry, and it sometimes does. But since that kind of chemistry goes against the male and female hormonal make up, it is almost never long-lasting.
So what can we do?
We can become more fluid in our ability to “dance” with our partner chakra-wise!
A woman can choose to back off from her masculine chakra energies (root, solar plexus and throat) and drop into more of her delicious feminine (sacral, heart and third eye) when around her male partner.
And a man can do the same and step into more of his masculine when around his feminine partner.
When romantic partners do this, they can consciously create sexual and relational chemistry. And not out of need (because they actually have the other qualities in their repertoire), but out of a desire to play and dance with their beloved.
When chemistry and connection come not from need, but from conscious choice, they aren’t seeded in a fear of losing the other, since each partner has an energetic wholeness within themselves.
I call this healthier paradigm: “You complement me.”
Want to better understand how it works? Watch the video above.
And if you’re in a gay relationship (which I’m not), I’d love if you would comment and share your experience with polarity and chakras.
Thanks and big hugs!
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