My Little Miracle ~ Simple Ways To Communicate With Your Higher Self


Here’s The Link For Feminine Power Course Mentioned In The Video

Do you communicate with your Higher Self? Or the Universe? Do you do so through divination tools or simple meditation and prayer?

In this week’s post and video I explore a few simple ways you can better communicate with that part of you that is wiser and more vast; the part of you that is connected to Spirit and all that is.

I’ve noticed with my clients over the years that communicating with your Higher Self or The Divine Realms can seem like a daunting task. Spiritual endeavors like this can feel so sacred and important that we doubt our ability to do them right.

I’m here to tell you that if you bring a sincere intention into your practice of communicating with your Higher Self, there’s no way to you can do it wrong. Spirit speaks all languages and appreciates your desire to connect.

I realize that I’m blurring lines here and being imprecise. Many would say that the Higher Self is different from Spirit and even Spirit is different from the Universe.

I get it. And I’m fine with you making those finer distinctions. But for me, it all goes into one big, beautiful category of “Communication With Something Larger Than My Ego; Something from a Higher Realm That Offers Me A More Vast Perspective.”

I’ve got a few simple suggestions on how to better communicate with this other realm/other part of the Self.

First of all, don’t take it too seriously. Yes, it’s sacred, but it doesn’t have to be lofty and you shouldn’t allow it to intimidate you. It’s just you communicating with some aspect of the Divine, and we’re all Divine.

medicine-deckSecond, make it fun. Not only do we not have to be furrow-browed serious about it, but we can actually have some fun with it. There are lots of fun divination tools – tons of different kinds of oracle cards and pendulums, and old standards like the Ouija Board – that we can use to make the process more playful.

I particularly like Doreen Virtue’s Goddess Oracle Cards and the Animal Medicine Cards by David Carson. I also really like using pendulums and observing the signs and symbols the Universe is showing me in my every day life. (You can check out my post on symbols here ).

My favorite technique is to do something I can a “Dictionary Reading.” It’s super quick and easy and I get really good results. Just grab a big, thick collegiate-type dictionary. Close your eyes, focus on what you want to ask, and then do so out loud. Open the dictionary at random and let your finger land on a word or phrase. Then, once you’ve read the word you finger landed on, look to see what entry this is part of – what word it is defining — unless your finger falls on an actual entry.

I have received the most amazing insights and guidance with this technique over the years, the most incredible of which is shared in the video above. I actually asked the Universe for a miracle, and I got one! I talk about it in the last couple minutes of the video. If you want to check into the event I got that unbelievable reading on, you can find out about it here.

Another technique I really like is one I got from my dear friend, Life Coach and Best-Selling Author, Farhana Dhalla. She says that when it comes to Yes/No type decisions like should I stay or should I go, you should flip a coin

That’s right, flip a coin. Heads means yes, tails means no (or vice versa if you prefer).

The coolest thing about a coin-flip is this: the “answer” you get from the coin is not nearly as important as your gut reaction to that answer.

The coin is actually a sort of prop in this instance that helps you feel what you really want deep inside.

In truth, all divination tools can play this role, but it’s easiest with yes/no type techniques.

Since the possible answers are opposite, your reaction to the one that doesn’t feel right will have a tendency to be more extreme.

So flip the coin, notice your reaction to the coin’s “answer,” and you have your real answer. I think it’s a pretty clever way to figure out what you really want deep down – in that place beyond the conscious mind.

Of course, these are just a few simple suggestions.

There are lots of other ways to communicate with your Higher Self. Meditation is a simple one… though sometimes it doesn’t feel so simple.

I’d love to hear about your favorite way.

Feel free to share yours in the comment section below.

Love, joy, blessings,



  • Zora
    April 19, 2014

    I ADORE those synchronicities! That was wonderful…these methods may be simple, but they WORK, and they work the best of all! I had FORGOTTEN HOW WELL!!! Oh my gosh…I have been so hard on myself, thinking I had to get more and more complicated with my methods of making up my mind (which is something I have issues with at the best of times!)

    Overall, I’m a simple person, and I think this is why I keep finding myself here whenever you grace us with a video…and that is a HUGE COMPLIMENT! WHat a breath of fresh air, and I am going to begin again, to use these amazing techniques!

    I am going to check out Feminine Power, and hopefully I will be taking that course because I do believe I have been neglecting that aspect!

    Thank you so much Vicki…many blessings and much Love to you! 🙂

  • Vicki
    April 19, 2014

    That’s wonderful Zora. Thanks for your comment. Your enthusiasm is inspiring! Yes, follow your truth, keep it simple and grounded. And I hope you do Feminine Power. Every woman participating adored it (from all over the world), so I know it wasn’t just me. All the best to you on your path. Love, joy, blessings, Vicki

  • Vicki
    April 19, 2014

    That’s great, Ajeet. Have fun! 🙂

  • April 19, 2014

    Dear Vicki,
    Thanks for this video and article! I tried the dictionary technique and it worked very well! thenks!!! I had to decide which guided meditation I should do and there was one related to the activation of the amygdala to release past traumas: http://agencyofcreation.com/tantras-most-important-activation-yet-2/
    There were many other activations available on that website, so it was hard to choose, so I took my dictionary and asked my higher self what she thought was more suitable for me, and I found the word “hurgar” which means to delve or to dig, and there is the expression “hurgar en la herida” which means “to open old wounds” (it was a Spanish dictionary, because this is my mother tongue. I could have taken an English dictionary but this was the first I found). So, yes, I got my answer and it was very clear 😉

    Some other methods: I use an oracle called “The Gaia oracle”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1_RZP8k4j5o It was made by an Australian artist who is deeply connected to the feminine divine. The images and messages are really inspiring!

    Another way to communicate to my higher self is dreaming! I dream a lot and I usually remember my dreams and write them down in my diary. When I read old dreams I find interesting information about things that happen in my life, in other people’s life or in a more collective framework.

    Two other ways of connecting to my higher self is meditating and observing synchronicities. They are everywhere! 😉

    Thanks for these wonderful tips and for sharing your story on how you joined the Feminine Power course. I also hesitate a little bit when I got the information, last August, but I felt that it was something I had to do it for many reasons, and even if the course had started one week before I enrolled, I was glad to be part of it. By the way, if I hadn’t took the course, I wouldn’t have met you, so, that’s another bonus of the feminine power course: you have the opportunity to meet wonderful and inspiring women!!!

    Much love!


  • April 19, 2014

    Sorry, this is the link in English for the Gaia Oracle: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G4R-xCNW70c
    Enjoy it! 😉

  • Vicki
    April 19, 2014

    Wow, what a wonderful, well thought-out comment. Thanks so much for sharing. Yes, there are so very, very many ways we can connect and communicate with our Higher Selves! I only shared a few (and still my video was longer than most of my videos). I love that you brought in dreams. Maybe I’ll do a video on dreams… they have been instrumental for me too! Though, I find sometimes I don’t remember them as well as I wish I would. At those times, I wish I had worn my own 3rd Eye Healing Tattoo to bed. Many clients and customers have told me that they have dreamed more lucidly when they are wearing my Ajna tattoos. I love the idea of the Gaia cards! Are you familiar with my new album “Chakra Love.” The song, Muladhara, is basically a love song to Mother Earth. It makes me feel more connected to my Higher Self. In fact, the whole album does. I think you just inspired my next video “How Dreams & Healing Music Connect Us To Our Higher Selves.” Thank You!! Sending you much love my Feminine Power Sister! Vicki

  • April 23, 2014

    Oh, yes, music is also an important ingredient in my life, so, I’m definitely looking forward to watching your next video about dreams and music!!! 🙂 I’m listening to your album demos right now, merci ! Thanks for sharing your multiple talents with the world!
    Love and blessings!

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